It’s very interesting. When I look at the spankings real (childhood) and imagined, they were ALWAYS about punishment for real or created offences. With the internet came the realization that 1) I wasn’t the only one that liked spanking, 2) Spanking didn’t have to be only about punishment.
I have had one truly erotic spanking; I was blindfolded and all kinds of wonderful things were done to my body, including spanking starting gently, long and slow, gradually becoming more intense, harder, faster. I can’t remember the number of times I exploded in ecstasy.
Stress Relief: Now that’s one I haven’t had specifically, but could certainly use at the moment. I know that it works; I’ve had other spankings and discovered afterwards that all the stress had just melted away.
Playful: I’d made a smart aleck remark and the guy (vanilla) I was with chased me around, occasionally landing a stray smack, eventually falling, both giggling, on to the bed (which broke) to make lots of fun crazy love.
The problem is that I spent so many years making up punishment stories for fantasy purposes that I still have trouble dreaming up something else. Maybe I need to practice expanding my repertoire?
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- LynLass
- Houston, Texas
- I am a single woman of "a certain age" whose interest range from live theater, creating gardens, baseball, and much more. I have lived abroad, traveled extensively, and base myself in Houston, though my roots are in the Mid-West. Most of my life I have been somewhat of a radical in conservative dress. My opinions are my own...if I borrow someone else's I give them the credit.
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Being blindfolded is interesting but unfamiliar to many of us. Closing off one form of input must heighten others.
Would there be any interesting connections between being blindfolded and being restrained? An acquaintance described a combination event of that sort. I don't recall if it was just her fantasy or something she had tried but she was the one in control (placing the blindfold, etc.) She didn't use the heavy, scene-laden word "restraint" but rather talked of being tied to the bed posts. Her description of it included talk of "slack" so she could climb underneath her partner. As I said, it may all have been fiction but the issues of ceding temporary control are raised. Personally I would never want to depend on someone else. What if they have a problem? So, some sort of escape mechanism would be essential to any ceding of physical control.
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